you know normally i have the usual way of motivating people and console them by making them smile and enable to relax. but i feel the effect dont last long and sometime is difficult. you know what! i actually try a new way, is to relax and slowly make them smile and relax again. but then i forgot about third factor. OMG again, haiz... cause this way is actually more easy and long lasting even i cant make them smile. haiz.. but atleast i am able to learn few things, this way i am sure is effective but difficult, next external factor, lastly is a secret! secret! hahs! but then i dont really like my life to be so hectic. comfirm fall sick easily. OMG!!! hahas. i know i can be a great validator which include a motivator and some other more .. ooo well lets take it step by step .. hahas .. let rest. good night! smile